How to Become a Foster/Adoptive Parent

Become a Foster or Adoptive Parent

Foster and adoptive parents care for and address the physical, emotional, educational, developmental and spiritual needs of a child in a loving, family setting. They are instrumental in shaping the child’s future. Loving people from all walks of life can become foster or adoptive parents.


Who Are The Children?

Foster children and children awaiting adoption range in age up to 18 years old. They are from all cultural and ethnic backgrounds. These children are in need of love, shelter and mentorship. Given this, they will prosper and have the chance to thrive. The majority of children in care are teenagers and siblings, which is the hardest group to place in homes. 


Who is Eligible to Become a Foster or Adoptive Parent?

Couples or single adults who are at least 21 years old are eligible. Foster and adoptive parent candidates must complete state licensing and training requirements, including a physical exam, and child abuse and criminal background checks.

After licensing, foster and adoptive parents continue to receive support. Through this support, they can continue to build their skills in ongoing development programs.


Steps to Becoming a Foster or Adoptive Parent

  • Attend an orientation meeting and complete a basic screening questionnaire.
  • Participate in a 30-hour training program called the Model Approach to Partnerships in Parenting (MAPP).
  • Complete a personal history interview conducted in your home by a case manager. The case manager will visit your home at least twice during and after the training period.  
  • Complete required background screenings for criminal history or reports of child abuse.
  • Participate in home and health inspections. A medical exam or doctor’s statement may be required for applicants under a physician’s care, or with a physical or mental health disorder.
  • Complete character references, including personal and employment references.  School references are required if you have school-age children at home.


Adopting a Foster Child

It is not required to be a foster parent before adopting. However, adoption is often a choice for foster parents. In fact, about one-fourth of the children placed in foster care are later adopted by their foster parent. 

With all adoptions, a case manager will assist the adoptive family with the pre- and post- adoption requirements and the legal transfer of the child into the home. The case manager will assess the child’s adjustment to the home during monthly visits and assist with the coordination of services. When the family and the child are ready to finalize the adoption, an attorney will schedule a formal hearing before a judge. 

Because families of these children suffer from four or more major life challenges at once, they need help navigating many complex bureaucracies and a bewildering array of service systems.

Family Services helps by coordinating across systems to get the most vulnerable families the help they need when and where they need it most. We are funded to serve nearly 10,000 children and their families each year, leaving behind more than 20% of those who desperately need our help.


 

Testimonials

"Family Services of Metro Orlando helped me be a child when I needed to be a child. And they’re helping me become an adult now that it’s time for me to be a man. They haven’t let me down and have been a blessing in my life." 
–JK, age 18.
 

"There’s always room for hope in a child’s heart and that child always needs that room to be filled. "
–CJR, age 16.
 

"Without Family Services of Metro Orlando being there for me, I’d probably be in the streets, you know, selling drugs, being in jail, probably dead."
–JA, age 20
 

"I didn’t always have somebody to take care of me so I really want to say that being in foster care kind of gave me an opportunity to go back into my childhood a little bit and then redevelop myself into an adult. "
–JK, age 18
 

"[Home is] somewhere I can hope and dream and be thinking of the future. It means I get a family and I can see the world the way I always wanted to."
–CJR, age 17
 

"If people take the time and choose carefully, they’ll pick me." 
–AL, age 14
 

"I see souls in these pictures. These are our children. They belong to this community."
–Dick Batchelor
 


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